It’s funny the people who I know, that are out of debt or mostly out of debt can’t seem to afford anything. More intesting is the folks I know that are having problems with their finances, always seem to have really nice new things around their houses, have you noticed that?
Sounds like I am being overly glib, but I view this as a very true statement. It is easy to prove.
The folks who have little debt, or none, don’t buy things and thus do not increase their debt, therefore all their debt payments go straight onto the existing amount, however, folks who already have debt, now increase their debt with more purchases and thus their debt payments go onto growing debt, thus their debt does not decrease (or decrease at a noticeable rate).
Still don’t believe me? Is your debt dropping? If it is, have you bought anything big on credit lately? My bet would be the answer to the credit purchase question is no.
It’s interesting how a simple statement like We Can’t Afford That, can have such powerful consequences in folks lives, if they simply follow their own advice. Â More than once, I have said out loud to my spouse, “We can’t afford <Fill In The Blank>”, yet I then turn around and purchase that same <Fill in the Blank> thing (on credit), with some outlandish rationalization that makes the credit increase palatable (to me). Things like:
- I only have to pay it back in a year (zero interest for a year purchase)
- I’ll be getting a tax rebate next month
- I deserve it (yes this is the worst one of the bunch, and I deserve your shame andÂ denigrationÂ for that one).
Why was it that we couldn’t afford something before, and then we could after I rationalized? I’ll tell you why, because I am an idiot, that is why, and that is why our debt load has had a lot of issues getting paid back in a timely fashion.
Time to start listening to the statement, We Can’t Afford That, and stop creating massive rationalizations to buy things on credit, and this will lead you out of the debt state you are currently fighting.
What can’t you afford, that you still may end up buying on credit?