For my readers out there, who are searching for Mister or Ms. Right, and are not having much luck, here is something to add to your criteria in your search: Is your prospective spouse set up for Retirement? Do they have Pension Potential?
I borrowed this from a female classmate from my “so you want to retire” course a while ago. She correctly pointed out that a great deal of stuff that would benefit her would happen if she were married (or bad things will happen if she getsÂ divorced, and if you are separated, that’s a confusing situation ( for pensions, at least)), if you work for the government.
One thing that we Civil Servants do have in our favour is a very nice pension. If you are looking at those dating sites, find a Teacher or a Civil Servant, as they should have the best financial attributes for Retirement. Finding a potential spouse that has a pension is becoming a lot harder. Very few private firms offer pensions. Maybe I have stumbled upon a new Match Making website, “Pension Potential.”
Pension Potential Topics
Here are some other interesting financial topics to discuss with a future spousal candidate:
- How much discretionary debt do they hold? If they have $12,200 worth on their MasterCard and still have $40,000 in student loans to pay back, do you want to help them do that? If you marry them, that is on the table.
- Do they ever plan on moving out of their parents’ basement? This could mean they are just cheap and don’t want to spend money, or maybe they like home cooking? Either way, do you also want to be your future spouse’s pseudo-parent?
- Do they constantly pay for everything on dates? Do you wonder why? Are they cheap? Are you cheap? Something to think about as well.
Why am I handing out love life advice? In my years, I have seen more “relationships” destroyed by money issues (and money lifestyle misalignment). I hoped I might help the young folks with a few pointed remarks.