Debt is Like Teenage Sex

by bigcajunman on July 7, 2011

I Clarify my Stance

Previously I have stated Debt Reduction is Like Teenage sex, lots of talk but no one dares tell you how to do it right, but I think I want to clarify this a bit more as well:

Debt is like teenage sex: everybody talks about how it is so much better now that we talk about it and such, but is it really?

Now remember I am the father of 3 daughters, so let’s not go down the garden path about teenage sex, and maybe concentrate on the Debt portion of that statement.

Experts keep talking about debt reduction, smart debt or worse still good debt, when in fact debt is just bad (yes as a father of teenagers, I am saying teenage sex is bad, form a queue on the left if you want to dispute this notion, but let’s stay on topic here). The people that are rationalizing that Debt is a good thing are banks, pay day loan companies and credit card companies (i.e. the lenders), which makes sense, but why is it assumed that Debt is OK (like teenage sex in our parents generation neither was condoned)?

The arguments that come up a lot of times about Debt are the same ones the teenagers use about teenage sex: everybody else is doing it!.

When did that become a valid excuse?!? Really WTF, we all seem to follow mob mentality a little too easily these days, just ask the law abiding citizens of Vancouver about that one. Let me give you the answer your parents would have given you, “If Johnny jumped off a bridge, would you follow him?”, which is a valid response to the “everybody is doing it”.

Yes my argument is a bit old school, but do you disagree, is debt not like teenage sex? Do you have an even better explanation of this analogy, I am willing to listen to those as well.

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Sustainable PF July 20, 2011 at 8:25 pm edit
Debt sucks but I did enjoy teenage sex.

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- bigcajunman July 21, 2011 at 4:45 am edit
  HIYO!!!! I cannot make the same claim, having never experienced the latter!
  
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Rachel Levington July 7, 2011 at 9:31 pm edit
Interesting analogy! Debt is certainly bad if you are over your head and cannot keep up with payments. If you are efficient at keeping a personal budget and paying out less than you make some debts are very necessary: a car, an education, a home, health care costs. However, delaying self-gratification is a requirement for avoiding deep personal debt. If you’ve gotten so deeply into debt and continue to do so, the interest rates will drown you. There is help out there if you’re such a position. Finding a bankruptcy trustee could help save you before you actually do drown. Here’s an article that I found helpful about finding a bankruptcy trustee.

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Bankruptcy Ben July 7, 2011 at 9:08 pm edit
The only acceptable debt is credit accumulated for pupose of buying an income producing asset, that will generate more income than the interest payments. I don’t view a car or a wardrob as acceptable reasons to accumulate debt. Maybe you should say a credit card bill is like peeing on a stick, if it says anything but 0 your in trouble

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DIY Investor July 7, 2011 at 5:59 am edit
I’m not going near the analogy but I do believe some debt is useful. For example, if you need a car for a better job, a house, or even education. The problem IMHO is that people don’t think about whether they can handle the debt and too often use it for immediate consumption items ending up buying stuff they don’t need or are better off waiting for. In the end they pay more when interest is added in and interest ends up working against them rather than for them.
This includes the U.S. government.

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